See the week you actually had.
One picture of who carried what, your children and your pets, hour by hour. Parity never scores you and never decides what is fair. It shows what was.
A real household, drawn by the same grid you get.
Two colours, one week
Colour is responsibility. Green is one of you, orange is the other. Never pink and blue.
Height is the clock. An hour looks like an hour, always.
Width is the effort. A calmer dependent takes a narrower lane, so the area you see is the load you carried.
You will recognise your week in two seconds. That is the whole idea.
An hour is not an hour
Nursery does not take the responsibility away. It takes the effort away. Those are different things, and Parity draws them differently: the block fades and gets a hatch, but it keeps your colour and your width.
Nights, school, grandparents, a sitter. You decide what each of them costs. Nobody else's numbers are ever shown to you.
It lives in the calendar you already use
Every person gets one subscription link. Apple, Google, Outlook. Your care week appears next to your meetings, with a small reminder when a handover is coming.
Google can take a few hours to refresh. Apple is instant.
What Parity will never do
Never a fairness score. 60/40 can be exactly right.
Never a comparison with other families.
Never a colour that says one of you is behind.
First names only. No birthdays, no photos, no location. Export everything or delete it all, from day one.
Two ways to keep it
Free up to and including your filled week. You pay to keep it beyond this session, to invite the second person and to subscribe in your calendar.
Founding household
49 €once, for good
One hundred places.
Monthly
6 €per month
The lifetime pays for itself after eight months.
Short questions
- Do we both need an account?
- No. One of you sets it up, the other opens a link.
- Does it work for separated parents?
- Yes. It was built for one unbroken timeline, whether you live together or not.
- Can I use it for pets only?
- Yes, and people do.
- What if we stop?
- Export your data as JSON, or delete the household. Both take one click.